Getting Ready to Marriage

I am just turning 25 by October, still months from reaching the ideal money for simple but happy church wedding and post-wedding lunch; but I am excited so much that all I hope now is to make the days fast and earn a lot.

I may not be financially stable, but there is something I am ready despite my young age: emotional. I had been through a lot of emotional pain, that's why it's gonna be my power to protect a future marriage I am praying and working hard for. Without experience or maybe, the challenge I went during those times, I wouldn't be this enough ready.

I am also ready, by means of house chores and knowing how to cook. Men my age won't even cook or even try! But I learned a lot from my mom on how to cook, just look on our mom when they cook before we live by ourselves!

All I need is more maturity and money. Now, I can say that I am almost ready for a married life, wit my only princess.

A future with you

Actually guys, I still haven't have enough sugar on my brain to write on my blog about politics or even news. I am really focused right now on her and it seems it keeps me away from my typical right wing conservative activism. At least, I am not that focused in politics altogether.

I really loved her to the point, I am hoping for a church wedding with her. A church wedding that will make my simple wish for a happy family with her. A family that goes to church every Sunday, works together, prays together, eats together and fighting all the problems and pains that will come as one.

I am serious on loving her to the point that I don't mind her actual age or what my parents or some of my friends would tell about her age or that she is the same faith as mine. I am praying now that hopefully, I can be married with her and have kids baptized in the Orthodox church. I truly believe that God gave me her because of the way things transpired and how she feels I am truly giving my best for her.

If she sees out this article and uses a translator, she could be surprised that I am happy and content with her. Indeed.

Marriage is sacred

Wedding is a joyous day in every companionship life. What is in stored there is for the future. Loving each other, having babies, working together for the success of their offspring and much more, their lifetime contract to God which means till death do as apart.

During my past entries about my ideal wedding, i described my ideal future wedding as an Orthodox Christian one. Although for now, it is just a dream.

What i don't like about the situation in this modernized world is that, many people think too much of money and tend to forget the true meaning of a good  marriage. There are some questions raised as well like, "is he/she the one?" or "is he/she rich?" or this and that. What kind of mentality are those? For me, i wouldn't mind if she is rich or poor as long as she is the woman i want to love and love with through pain and joys. 

Some weddings are shotguns as well or just because of VISA or just because of any stupid reason i knew ever since i was a kid! Hasn't they learned the true essence or they just weren't educated enough at home?

If someone would ask me about wedding, it is my forever or lifetime contract to God. It is not meant to be broken or a subject to divorce but, of true Christian family through pains and joys, hardships and success, trials and wins. It is not a man made part of our life secularly but spirituality. And i will tell him/her that, only scared/opportunistic people divorce for another person. My views on wedding actually differs from my dad but i know what good things are and those who seize the opportunity to make pleasures of themselves.

Whether your a Christian or a Muslim or Jew or any religion it doesn't matter as long as you have the good ideals and sacred heart to fulfill your wedding vows because God will be the only one who will know that you value your marriage enough to be called a good father or mother.