Making you girl BEAUTIFUL

Making your girl beautiful is very hard. Why? It is because regardless of beauty or not, she will feel "ugly" if unattended by their respective boyfriends.

Let's say that's a unique case of sensitivity or jealousy(if there is). 

For me, a young man having a pregnant gilrfriend, i always tell her to wear some showy dress. It doesn't mean to make her sexy so much but the level that your eyes will only see her as a beautiful girl especially when the couple are that young.

If some guys would have the same scenario like mine(young couple), i may recommend to make their girl wear some showy attires(miniskirt, short-shorts and others) or buy their girl with those set of attires to make them beautiful.

I just feel showing emotional love is not yet enough, because the level of jealousy is still there. Some women are not born beautiful but they can be, regardless of fashion or attitude as long as they have the right man with them.

The rebellious i am, the more i am kind

People misunderstood my true intentions. Maybe that's why i am more rebellious because even the best of my intentions, they would abort it or try to resist my peaceful improvement.

Not being a hypocrite like politicians, i am just trying to be me. I am not into bad intentions but only the good ones. Who are those people making things so complicated?

Naturally, i am not a rebellious son of the Garcia family. But as time passes by and they don't understand my feelings, it came to the point that i have to be that rebellious kid that they are not expecting because, it is the way they see it even if it's not really the case. I just have to live with it instead of being swallowed away by this society's mistaken views.

But i am mantaining a sense of innocence. That is because I want to see what other people's heart and mind and how they strive to become a much better person for this society without being a rebellious one like me.

Being Old School

I am not much of an old school but will never be an ultra-liberal. On my articles, i tend to criticize Liberalism despite myself being a Moderate Conservative. Life or religion or politics, i am really that conservative. I am not saying i am against liberalism all throughout but criticizes ultraliberalism because it is happening now.

Look at Europe, ultraliberalism kills the social norms and somehow, the good moral values that were taught always in Western Europe throughout the generations. Divorce is common and couples are finding ways to cheat each other in favor of a macho or sexy person in exchange for a good family. Multiculturalism is out of the picture here but so much liberalism would destroy society.

Why am I saying this?

The Charlie Hebdo cartoons. Gay Marriage. Destruction of religion. Spread of cults. And a lot of madness made by the broken system all throughout the world.

There are good atheists and bad. There are good or bad Christians or Muslims or Jews. Or good and bad liberals or conservatives.

The bottom line is creating a society devoid of true family values will destroy the world, which would lead into wars that will eventually disrupt most people's lives.

While it is still early, i hope everyone can sense they need to do their best to avoid the destruction of society before it's too late.

Effects of wars

I never saw war in my homeland. Or it could have erupted into a full scale civil war if people aren't that educated enough since they don't care too much and would live under puppet governments.

Here's the thing though. The wars that the world see now is a byproduct of either of the superpowers' great game. By threatening the balance of power, USA, Russian Federation, China and the EU are making a 19th Century scramble for the world.

Here's my take on the above superpowers:

1. USA-The greatest of them all. Created the ISIS, funded the mujahedin(which would become the Al-Qaeda), dooped the communist Eastern bloc to adopt democracy(but nothing really worked) and never cared for its citizen. Funded the Fake Syrian Army in turn, spilled the Syrian civil war to Iraq directly!!!!

2. Russia-Made Abkhazia independent, so does South Ossetia and had a rift with Georgia(American slave state). Allegedly helping the Ukranian Russians. Trying to dominate South American socialist states. Going into a devil's pact with China and some questionable acts(although some are reasonable).

3. China-Claiming all of the Spratlys for themselves. Stealing land from the Philippines. Showing the world that abortion and apathy are right for this generation. Contributing to pollution. Making North Korea untouchable.

4. EU-Making life worse in Europe. Austerity and fake monetary assistance. Brainwashing Europe into Anti-European and making itself a puppet of America.

Where's the problem solver for the poor African states? Or modernizing the world without endangering the religious or ethnic diversity of the world? Does doing bad thing mean the political norm these days? Where can we have social justice?

NGO against faith

Searching for something to talk about, i saw this article. This article that made my head burst into annoyance. Why? Of all the groups that will make this stupid statement, an NGO named Movement for Enlightened Society is against the celebration of Saint Sava as the patron saint of schools in Serbia.

Here is the article from B92:

The NGO also protested over Serbian Orthodox Church (SPC) priests taking an active part in school celebrations, "with prayers and inappropriate sermons, and performance of religious rituals," in this way "additionally stressing the religious importance of the holiday." 

"By celebrating patron saint day of schools as a religious holiday, the Constitution of Serbia is being directly violated in Article 11 that mandates the separation of churches and religious communities and the state," said a statement. 

The NGO, which earlier this month criticized President Tomislav Nikolic for sending his Christmas message and taking part in Christmas rituals held at the presidency building as "impermissible abuse of the holiday and violation of the Constitution," reminded headmasters of state schools and "responsible persons in the government" that there are members of other religions, "as well as atheists," among schoolchildren and their parents and teachers.

According to the statement, they are denied the right to celebrate St. Sava's Day as "a true school holiday open to everyone, regardless of their religious and ethnic orientation."

This is the disease of ultra-liberalism in Europe and the discontent of some pro-EU trying to destabilize the Serbian state, that cannot recover in a hurry because of the events in it's history that made them bad in most states by means of false propaganda.

One Blessed Experience

Yesterday, me and my girl went to the church for the transferring a part of Saint Nicholas of Japan(Sveti Nikola Japanski)'s relics in the Nagoya church, with the Metropolitan Bishop Daniel Nushiro leading the Divna Liturgija. It was one of the most surprising moments for me to meet someone whom i saw only in the internet webpages but i wasn't able to get a blessing, since my girl can't stay for long, citing her developing womb.

That's the first time i saw an Orthodox bishop face to face and it was an honor. I wish i could have more but time constraints and that next time i am looking forward will still happen.

I wish also two of my close friends have arrived as well but i am sure to meet either of them in the mere future. God is truly merciful and recognizes our good hearts and forgives us, because we truly are repentant.

Middle Eastern Conflict built with lies

As the deadlines approaches for the two Japanaese journalists by Jihadi John, what people think of supporting the Fake Syrian Army was dead wrong. Here is a thing. When you support the wrong group, the world is a dead turkey to be served for the imperialists.

America and EU never knew the extent of damage they would make since they care only about themselves rather than the world's social problems.

But here is a thing though.

Why was Kenji Goto and Haruna Yukawa doing in a dangerous place? Was it a curiosity they got themselves into a trouble they knew they would be killed?

Kenji Goto once said don't blame the Syrian people but himself. I am not saying it is his fault but what price do we pay if we go to a dangerous place and it is in enemy hands???

Why Filipino-Japanese assimilated rapidly?

I don't really get why i never had earned a Japanese surename since birth or dad simply didn't cared of using that surename. Or maybe, this explains it well.

Early as the 12th century there are either traders or populations itself, and the Tokugawa expulsions in the 16th centuries for Christian Japanese... Oh wait, during the war, a lot of the Japanese-mestizos who are native before World War II were indiscriminately killed, forcing the living ones to change to Filipino names and deny even a bit of their Japanese heritage.

That pattern of assimilation irritates me. As a Sansei, i am slowly discovering my roots and tries to learn Japanese since i have a Japanese born Girlfriend and pregnant with my first, as i will name it Masahiko Đorđe if a boy and Ajko Jefimija if it is a girl. I may call both names because i have a strong leanings on both Japanese and Serbian cultures.

But choosing a Filipino name is not an option. Homestly. Unlike the Brazilian-Japanese or the Japs in America that have either maintained their cultural identity despite all the wartime propagandas thrown against them, the Filipino Nikkeijins simply assimilated unlike the Filipino-Chinese that won't even make a full-scale assimilation to the Filipino culture.

Not for racism or pride but i lament the negative effects of assimilation and the consequences of my family or the group i am born from that never cared about their roots.

Veza sa Sveti Knez Lazare

I sense always a strong connection with Car Lazar often. I prayed to God with the saint's intercession. It is somehow mysterious for me to implore his holy name then and now every nightly prayer, to which i decided to have a Slava for the future every June 28(Julian Calendar of June 15) and this is good for my spiritual life.

A Slava for me is the remembrance of a saint by having a prayer beside the food prepared. It may be more wider than my own explanation but a slava is a slava. It is generally a Serbian Orthodox feast.

I will be baptized in a Japanese church but since my saint is from Serbia, i will celebrate it every time the saint's feast day falls.

Pope Francis, can you recognize Jasenovac instead?

I am not yet seeing the thing we need to see from him. And that is recognizing the sufferings of the Serbian Orthodox Christians during World War II. Instead...

He is in my homeland. He is misleading not just Filipinos but every Catholic Christians out there for the purpose of religious correctedness with science and also competitions with Protestans, while trying to appease the Orthodox populations, which would not truly give in to a heretical organization for all.

The moral value is that, when you will never recognize Jasenovac, it means the worst holocaust in human history in terms of brutality would never come up in history books or even the worldwide media, which supports Francis's ultraliberal and anti-Christian thoughts.

What's happening in Europe?

I can't understand what's happening in Europe. They are having an intrusion from snackbarists, specifically from within France alone. France can't profile too much? Land of too much liberalism can't lash out even the most extremist ultra conservatives. It's frustrating things like this have to be much worse. Free speech is fine but too much of it and less profiling would be worse!!!! You can't just let in terrorists because it is a free country.

France could be another killing fields if it lets inside extremists of the same feather and continues too much liberalism.

Name for my first born

While me and my girl is currently debating on the name of our first child, it seems she would not want name having the suffixes: ko for a girl and hiko for boy. 

While that naming for me is fine since it is formal, she is annoyed and will say the word やだ or stop it while she is displaying a funny face. It is clear even a good name like Keiko or even the name Fuyuko(which is Child of Snow). She wants a cool name for girl, which i could not like(laughs).

If it is a boy, she would say that stop it phrase if she hears the name Takehiko, Masahiko, or even Ryouhei or Shouichi.

Can i only name it in Serbian version of the child's name?

But i know she will eventually give in to my small demands for a better Japanese name. I am hoping that it will not be treated as a Gaikokujin because my child will be born here and not in my homeland. They could be Yonsei but, since it is on Japanese soil, they are automatic Nihhonjin and i will raise my children with the most love and will for the future.

Journey to Fatherhood

Yes, it is confirmed. I am still young but i will be a daddy. That is full time or part time as they say it now. I went with my girl now and this was a big sacrifice on my part. I will begin being a father from scratch, which is true. Every father even my dad had gone through it. But i am ready to face it all, because of my girl who is willing to go through with me all the way. People could tell me i am selfish for leaving my family behind but it is for their own sake, since every time i am there, dad or mom will open up controversy after controversy.

And God made a way for me to be here. It is just i carried three bags with my backpack and i went to the station and like, everyone is looking at me. Of course, i suffered in my own decisions. But for the good of my parents and taking care of my pregnant wife, i settled down with her.

The hospital stay in the future is tough, bills, etc, etc and etc. But with God's power, my hope for the future remains optimistic since i know deep down inside, all i want is to do good and not to harm.

Hristos se Rodi

Hristos se rodi! Vaistinu se rodi!

The old calendar or Julian calendar(Julijanski Kalendar).

For me, it doesn't matter if either old or new calendar is what would be used for the church liturgy although i would prioritize this calendar too because it is the original church calendar used during the Byzantine times.

What's important is the true essence of Nativity. The birth of Christ in this world. Only the Eastern and Oriental Orthodox Christians seemed to have this true essence of Christmas and in the future, i may opt to January 7 of the New Calendar or the 25th of December in the old calendar when celebrating Christmas and i hope i have no work in that day.

Have a blessed nativity to all.

When there be the next Serbian Big Thing?

Yes, they came out big by 2014 and have the true best basketball system after America. But why they don't have an NBA player? Personal or lack of scouting maybe. The world instead wanted to see Dario Šarić or Mario Hezonja. Little did they know about Dejan Kravić or Dušan Ristić or even Bogdan Bogdanović who was named the best young player in Euroleague while playing his last season for Partizan.

Some players like Miloš Teodosić would play for the higher competition in Europe, citing lack of playing if he signs for an NBA team. Only as of January 6, 2015, Ognjen Kuzmić plays for the Golden State Warriors but lacks playing time even if the team lacks a big man in the regular rotation.

I would try to suprise if the San Antonio Spurs franchise would try to bring Nemanja Dangubić. As we know, San Antonio is one of the best for developing foreign talent and Nemanja could bestfit their. Speaking of Nemanja, Nemanja Nedović, who is the European Derrick Rose cannot crack the rotation despite that raw talent. That is he not given the playing time even 20 minutes! 

Serbs are better players without the referees' help or without those fancy American moves. Can't they be worse? They finished 7th in Eurobasket 2013 and Nemanja Nedović, Nenad Krstić and Nemanja Bjelica were their only gunners because Miloš Teodosić was injured leading to Eurobasket.

So, don't they deserve to enter the NBA and contribute?

Never Give Up

My motto for 2015 should be never give up. While i celebrated New Year with my girl, i ponder i can do things on my own and, i am getting older and tougher.

Maybe because being with her felt i am more powerful and i can become more of me than my parents or my enemies. Experience is the best teacher after all. You can't gain it by just a period but after all tough moments that will either haubt you forever or make you stronger.

I wish this year, i can be with her and marry her without any problems. I truly loved her and this is no joke but a manifestation of God's love for us that we shouldn't seek visa or money matters when we love from our hearts.